Relax. It’s Just About Sex.

I have absolutely no problem when a handsome stranger pulls me in close for a seductive bachata, but if that same good-looking guy pulls me in close at a regular club, my Catholic schoolgirl guilt always comes out.

I try to rationalize that in bachata, there is dance technique involved and this guy I don’t know pressing his body so close to mine is doing it to honour the dance…but really, I should stop kidding myself and relax. It’s always just about sex, no matter what soundtrack is on.

So whatever song is playing, whatever club you are in, just go with it sans guilt. A little fun with your clothes on never hurt anybody. ;)